Belated Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone!
I'll have to add pictures another time - sorry ~
This part was written before Christmas:I'll have to add pictures another time - sorry ~
I think I mentioned Martina before; I don’t remember if
she’s Catholic, or some other Christian religion. She came into the office looking for whatever
help she could get for work. Many people
come in thinking we are a staffing agency.
At times, it’s too bad we are not, but that is not our purpose. We are a resource for job seeking skills,
though we do have a tendency to try and match people and jobs together. I have seen too many times in the almost 9
months that I have been here, where a job will come open, someone comes in the
office in the next day or two needed that type of particular job, the person is
referred, and a job is acquired! It is
amazing! The Lord’s hand is definitely
in this work.
It was one of those moments for me, however, when Martina
came in the office just before Thanksgiving.
It is rare to see true, child-like faith as strong as Martina’s. I was at a place where I needed to literally
SEE her faith. It surrounded my
heart! Another tender mercy in my
behalf. We have sent Martina job leads
since she came into the office about 3 weeks ago. She hasn’t responded much, but did send a txt
back once that said she was applying at a couple of places. We sent her a txt asking how things were
going just in the last couple of days.
She actually called, needing help. As she hasn’t been able to find a job, her
power was turned off. She had food in
the fridge and freezer she was worried about, and! It was getting cold (for
here) (in the low 30’s – I know – stop laughing all you cold weather folks!). She thought of us, and asked if there was
anything we could do. I spent some time
on the phone trying to find the right resources. United Way has a program when called, which
is 2–1–1, gives the names and numbers of resources that are willing to help.
Unfortunately, Martina has already used up some of these resources. I did, finally, find someone from what would
be her ward if she were a member and talked with the Bishop’s representative
(Long story). I don’t know what can be
done, or even what should be done, but someone will go and make an assessment
to see. It certainly made me grateful for
people that are willing to go out of their way to see what help can be
given. It has reinforced the knowledge
of how grateful I need to be for all that I have; all the blessings from
Heavenly Father; and all Tom did to provide for our family. I recognize my dependence on others, in many
ways. I truly am blessed beyond measure
– I am so grateful for all I have; all Heavenly Father is trying to help me
become.
Martina emailed me back just the other day, and said the
ward where she lives gifted the money she needed to get her power back on. She is also going to church with one of the
families from that ward. Someone didn’t
have to freeze, and hopefully that same someone will join the church. Awesome!
Sister Morris and I have found the best thrift store! I remember you, Mom, saying you had found one
in one of the towns you served in! It’s
called American Vets, where the proceeds are giving to programs for
veterans. We have found some really cute
skirts/tops, etc for us, and even some for the young Sister Missionaries. After finding some several times, we decided
our budgets just can afford that, so we talked with our Stake Relief Society
President (who just HAPPENS to be in our ward!), got the names of the Relief
Society Presidents of the different wards in our stake, emailed them asking for
gently used skirts, and ending up with skirts, blouses, sweaters, even coats!
from our ward, and I will be going to pick up things from another ward in the
stake as well! I know there are over
100, possibly 200 pieces of clothing on Sister Morris’ bed!
Sister Morris has been in Virginia this past week, attending
her granddaughter’s baptism. She
received permission from President Gelwix to attend. She will be back Saturday night (15th). Most of what is here will have been taken to
Sister Gelwix before Sister Morris gets back.
I am currently looking for hangers, and a way to put what size each
piece of clothing is. It’s awesome to
see such generosity! Just like any
person feels, it’s fun to get something new and different to wear when you have
the same clothes day in and day out to choose from!
There is a sister in the ward whose husband died about the
time Sis. Morris and I arrived here. She
is a sweetie. I saw her at Michaels
yesterday. She was buying plastic
flowers to put on her husband’s grave.
It was a hard moment for her, so I spoke with her for a bit, then I was
talking with the cashier about it, and how sad that was. She said her marriage ended about 3 years ago
in divorce, which is just like a death or a loss, and how difficult that had
been. I told her I understood as my
husband had died 2½ years ago, and said I was so glad I knew Jesus was there to
help me/us through. She said she
believed in Jesus, so I handed her the Christ coming out of the tomb pass along
card for her to “look at” when times were tough. I’m always glad there are numbers on the back
which people can call!
This part is written after Christmas:
Sister Morris bought a headstone for her grandfather’s
grave. We took it up today, to Winton,
which is outside Merced. It will be
placed in the ground in about 2 weeks, so we will drive back up there to see it
so Sister Morris can have a before and after shot. Her grandpa has been identified! It was a sweet tender moment for Sister
Morris.
There was a funeral going on while we were there, which was
why we could go up on a Saturday. I
started feeling that feeling we all get when we are supposed to share the
gospel with someone. I told Sister
Morris I didn’t know what I was doing, but took out some Spanish Pass along
cards. We started taking with a couple
who were walking back to their car that we were so sorry, and were they related
to the deceased? It happened to be the wife’s
cousin. I gave them the pass along card with
Christ coming out of the tomb, sincerely told them I was sorry for what they
were going through. They were very kind
and said thank you very much.
For some reason, we got into the car, and started driving
around closer to the gravesite. There
were all these people with black shirts on, with something on the back, and we
were thinking they were with an organization or a gang. When we got closer, we realized it was a
picture. We asked one younger man if we
could see the picture. He said sure! It was of a nice looking young man, with a
nice smile. He told us it was their 21
year old friend who had been found all shot up.
He said something that really gave us pause to think – “You know – that’s
life. He’s in a better place now.” Isn’t that just sad? Thinking being shot up and killed was “life”.
That’s a pretty awful way of life. The
man saw the Christ pass along cards, and asked, “Can I have one of those?” (What do you think I said!) Then he asked for some for his friends. WOW!
We told him we were so sorry, and to tell his friends the same. He said, again, that his friend was in a
nicer place, but this time, there was a question in his voice. We said of course he was, then we drove away. Heavenly Father is really so very good to us,
to allow us to participate in spreading His gospel. Whether or not anything comes of it, we
followed the promptings of the Spirit, and when we do that, we are NEVER sorry.
On Sunday, Dec. 23rd, I received a blessing to be
able to function as the Mission Medical Coordinator. Sister Gelwix really needed the help, and no
one else offered, so I told Sister Gelwix I would. It’s been an interesting experience so
far! Lots of computer input, and talking
with Missionaries! How cool is
that? It will be a great way to get my
medical skills back into practice, and keep them strong, as well as helping
these people who have dedicated their lives to Heavenly Father. I’ve had some phone calls, so that’s good.
While we were there talking, President and Sister Gelwix said
they were delivering the Missionaries Christmas gifts to the north and south
parts of the mission. We offered to go
north so President and Sister Gelwix didn’t have to go south AND north. We were able to see some of the Elders in
Merced, Turlock, and Modesto and sang “We Wish You a Merry Christmas” to those
at the stake center drop off points. The
last drop off however, in Modesto, was at a humble member’s home. They found out we were just heading out to
come back to Fresno, and invited us to dinner.
They welcomed us into their home; into their family, to share their
Christmas Eve dinner. As we were
leaving, they gave us a little gift. How
kind is that? It really touched my heart
Christmas was nice. I
skyped with Camden, Taegen and Karla; talked with family members; went to see ‘Les
Miserables’, came home and helped Britta with the finishing touches for
Christmas dinner with her family; talked with more family!
My father in law, Willis had broken some ribs, then had a
problem with his bowel, then had a stroke.
He is apparently doing much better than last week, for which I am most
grateful!
I had my "hump" day on the 26th - it's hard to believe I'm half way finished!
We went to the Fresno Fair Grounds to see the Hmong’s New
Year Celebration today. It was loud,
colorful, entertaining, and the food we had was good. We had Pho soup, purple sticky rice, grilled
chicken – We met some people who were helping as much as possible with the
organizers over lunch. The gentleman
felt happy to be called a VIP. We asked
a bunch of questions, and understood most of what he and his wife said. These people are refugees from Mongolia,
starting first in Laos then going all over the world. There were some Elders there at a booth. Their names look really different and long in
Hmong.
We will probably have a movie night here on New Year’s
Eve. We are inviting lots of people, but
most people are already busy. Hopefully
we can find a good movie. Our friend
Becky says Native Americans from all different tribes from all over will be
having a Pow-wow at the convention center here in Fresno on New Year’s Eve from
12 noon to 12 midnight, and Becky asked if we would like to go. We said sure!
As we are working during the day, we won’t be going to all of it, but if
it’s anything like the Hmong celebration – it will be really cool!
I gotta go – yup – bedtime!
Things are going well – we are always busy, which is why it’s been so
long since I’ve written. I made an
appointment so I could send this out! I'm mostly kidding!
Thank you to everyone for your thoughts and prayers, for all
that you do for me! I am blessed to have
the privilege of serving Heavenly Father, and am grateful to be here.
I hope all is well with everyone – Happy New Year to one and
all! Love, Sister Ure